I'm a senior cat who lives with a silly girl. I know she loves me and takes good care of me, but sometimes her teasing is a bit too much for me. Lucky for me she spends hours at a time quietly doing her work. So, I can sleep and dream without her bothering me. And whenever I need her, she's not too faraway and usually available immediately.
I don’t know why my girl built a dollhouse. I suppose she likes them. I watched from afar. I wasn’t that interested. Spot and Isis watched her and thought she was building the dollhouse for them. I don’t know where they got that idea. I do know Ali made dolls to live in the dollhouse that was complete with furniture and accessories. She paid close attention to the details.
I don’t think she kept that particular dollhouse, but it didn’t stop her from trying to build another one later one. I guess she needs a dollhouse and some dolls. She doesn’t play with those things as she used to. These days, she uses the dolls and dollhouses to film her Writing Outtakes series. She has a doll which represents her and several which represent cats.
My girl likes to cook from scratch. She tends to cook for herself quite often. Perhaps not every day, but fairly often. It isn’t uncommon for her to be cooking while we watch her. It is a curious thing. I remember there was a time she actually cooked for Spot and me for a little while. Her cooking wasn’t bad. She didn’t cook our meat, but gave us some other food added to our meat. Spot and I were quite happy and content when she cooked for us.
It didn’t last long, but I know both Spot and Isis loved to watch her cook. Ali never cared that we all watched her so closely. She likes to cook and she always seemed so healthy and happy to me. Perhaps it was her cooking.
In some places, it is illegal to kill cats. We cats like the protection. In ancient Egypt, killing a cat was punishable by death. They knew cats were the reason they didn’t have to worry about disease carrying rodents. We cats killed the rodents and saved the humans.
I do know where we are honored to the fullest, it is illegal to kill us. However, in many places, it’s legal to put us to sleep, which is killing cats. Some do it because they can’t take care of all the cats due to lack of funds and policies which aren’t good for us. One reason they do kill cats is because we are too sick to live. Usually it’s the humans who decide which cats get treatment and which will die because treatment isn’t worth it.
There is a theory about how cats purr. Perhaps the human scientists are right. They seem to think we have extra tissue in our voice boxes which vibrates. My girl has tried to imitate a purr, but it’s not that great because she doesn’t have the right voice box.
Scientists do know we purr at the same frequency as human babies. Perhaps that is why we can comfort humans with a purr they can’t ignore.
When I became an elder cat, something wonderful happened to me. Spot and Isis left me alone. They just played with each other and gave me my space. My girl didn’t tease me as much as she used to. It was peaceful and quiet as I wanted it to be in my home. I didn’t mind the other three getting silly with each other. It was enough that they gave me the space I needed and let me be me. So, I could accept them as they were and enjoy the rest of my life.
Cat aggression isn’t very simple. It’s easier to understand with tom cats who fight for territory and mates. But it still exists in cats who are fixed. It can be caused by personality clashes or even not being able to get at the one the aggression is directed towards. It could be the cat is inside and there is another human or animal they can’t get to and so they take it out on someone else.
This is not the same as when cats play wrestle. With aggression there is hissing which can lead to growling and fighting. Sometimes this sort of fighting isn’t tolerated well by humans. I remember my girl yelled at both Spot and me for fighting and she told us we had to work it out and get along. She then put us in the shower together. We were stunned, but then we got used to each other and stopped fighting.
We realized she was right and we didn’t realize before she blew up how our fighting was upsetting her. There is no reason to fight like that when she loves us both equally and unconditionally. So, we learned to get along and just wrestled to get the tension out. No longer getting into full aggressive fights. Things were better for all of us after that.